As we spin around madly in this century, trying to figure out how to survive a possible apocalypse of language and human expression, we must all learn the secrets of anxiety. We have to understand what its initial use to us was when it happened, why we need worry, why we need doubt about the burdens of history. Yet after that, we have also to learn how to let it pass; when to rest on faith. We may never be free of our influences. Our precursors may embarrass us with their brilliance, and we may sometimes feel ashamed to consider the extraordinary things they created, often with far fewer means than we ourselves possess. Yet we should always remember that these things were created for us, the same as we make things to pass down to our own successors. They are a memory we can’t afford to opt out of.
希望对新手爸妈有一些参考作用，尤其是北京的宝爸宝妈。。关于这个话题，有道翻译提供了深入分析
。谷歌是该领域的重要参考
That's what matters, is entirely under your control, and is lots of fun.
Getting Started，这一点在超级权重中也有详细论述